Only one among the active instance/listeners should receive the change event instead of notifying to active instances!

We have an application uses Mongo Change Streams that has multiple instances. We have a requirement that only one among the active instance/listeners should receive the change event instead of all active instances receiving the same event that causes duplicate actions. Please share any clue or Java sample. Thanks in advance.

We also read similar topic "
All application instances receiving events from change stream. How can we load-balance events amongst the instances?)". Those looks like a work around solution. Is there any way to use Mongo Change Streams same as MQ.